Reflections of a young girl: How to become better?

Dissatisfaction with oneself is a quality thataccompanies many of us throughout life, constantly poisoning our existence and interfering with the realization of many goals, including promotion and winning the heart of a good guy. And is it possible to find at least one person, completely satisfied with their qualities?

So, every one of us visits us more and more often,how to become better. Especially if you need to become better for Him, for that unique and unique, which should become a true companion for life ...

Well, about how to get better, maybe it's worth thinking about. But how? How and what can this mean for each particular girl? And - this is the most important question - for whom?

First you need to determine exactly: Is it necessary? After all, the attitude towards oneself is very rarely completely adequate. Try to find at least one person who could tell himself - honestly and openly: yes, I love myself. There is a biblical truth about the need to love your neighbor as yourself. This means that you need to love yourself, and this is very difficult. But you can not slide to the swagger!

A look at oneself from the outside, a fair andimpartial, allows you to see your own merits and demerits and assess them perfectly adequately, without unnecessary emotions. This is a step towards knowing how to become better, how to improve.

Strictly speaking, one can strive to become the best incomparison with someone specifically, and it is from this that the concrete further actions to achieve perfection may depend. If a girl has a desire to become a better colleague at work, sitting at a nearby desk in the office, then this is one thing, and if you are impatient to improve your achievements in sports - quite another. But in any case, you need to determine for yourself some goal and strive for it with all your might. And just - how to become a good girl? This is the question that most of the young girls care about, but few people know how to get better.

One of the main qualities that any girlIt should have, especially if it seeks perfection - this is complete self-confidence. You can even say that this is the most important quality! Confidence in yourself and in your abilities and help any girl to become the best for Him, her lover, whom she can wait all her life.

Educate self-confidence is not easy, but ifthere is no such confidence, it will be difficult to find a place in the community, be it a group at a university or a friendly team of employees of the organization. So many of us go to the virtual world, where in virtual communities they find their communication, place, new friends and even a new name and a new face. By the way, what's wrong with the virtual world?

Confidence is achieved not in the lastthe turn of knowledge that any girl can possess. After all, when communicating in the virtual world, they pay attention first of all to those who can express perfectly sound and intelligent thoughts, rather than simple empty-headed talkers, right? But in the real world, the same people live and it will be much more interesting for them to communicate with a smart and interesting girl, and not with a windy and empty-headed, although with some such people it can be interesting to communicate.

So you just need to be yourself, loveyourself exactly what it is? Oh, this very much helps to achieve full confidence in yourself and your strengths, and therefore, to become interesting to others, therefore, better! Here there is a strict dependence: the wider the circle of interests, the more respect for others and friends. The more interesting the girl, the more the circle of admirers, and absolutely to what to impose on the face a thick layer of decorative cosmetics and to seem accessible ...

Goodwill is another quality,allowing any girl to become good. If you treat with tolerance and goodwill towards people around you, they will also be only happy to be called friends. In no case do you need to show your bad mood to others, or you can not break your own evil. Good attitude towards people gets very cheap, but very expensive appreciated by others. Likewise, it is important to pay attention to many who need it. These are just small tips how to become a good girl.

And you can achieve self-confidence if you do not "fixate" too much on your shortcomings, eliminate complexes and think about what is good in us and develop these qualities.

But the most interesting is to just come to God and consult with Him about everything. He will tell you.